iankh said:
Is there something wrong with this method?
How much would a small electrical shock bother you? How about a large one? Got a problem with fatal shocks to you or your family members?
The reason by the NEMA 10-30 is no longer recommended is that people got shocked by their dryers. Usually just a little shock. Sometimes badly. Sometimes fatal.
If all is connected right and nothing ever breaks, OK. But if there is a specific fault, namely an open in the neutral someplace upstream, then the neutral can have a hazardous voltage on it. How hazardous depends on what other loads downstream of the neutral break are connected at the time you touch it. Sure, is a somewhat unlikely fault, but happened in my Grandparents house, and things like light, TVs and other electronics might be extra bright, extra dim, dead or just not working to might clue you to turn off the main breaker and call an electrician. Or in my Grandparent's case, to just leave the house and call from a neighbor's house.
The ground of the charging station is connected to neutral by the adapter cord, which is connected to the car. Just like an old dryer. Neutral is usually the same as ground, except when it isn't. The right way to wire it is to connect the ground to ground, and keep neutral out of it. Yes, should be a GFI in the charging station (and is, except for cheap junk) and the GFI, if it works, might prevent your death.
How lucky do you feel?